We
all develop ways of coping with the stresses and strains of modern life but
most of us don’t adhere to them as fanatically as the family depicted in Rules for Living, a new play by Sam Holcroft, currently playing in rep
at The Dorfman.
An
article at the front of the programme describes the whys and wherefores of CBT
(Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy), which, I’m guessing, was the starting point
for this cleverly devised comedy. The
goal of CBT is to make “patients” recognise their various emotional traps and
ultimately help them discontinue the coping strategies (Rules for Living) they
have devised. In a nutshell it ultimately
makes them feel better and more confident.
The
problem is that the family gathered for Christmas in Rules For Living seem unaware that they are in need of a dose of
CBT. Indeed the therapy is only
mentioned as a possible course of action to combat the negative attitude of
Emma, the teenager who spends most of the play off stage.
As
Alan Ayckbourn brilliantly portrayed
in Seasons Greetings, Christmas is
often the catalyst for family tensions and so it is with this play. Edith, the
mother, who is hosting Christmas lunch, plans everything with a military
precision, is desperate for everything to run like clockwork and for everyone
to have the best time ever. The trouble
is that her two sons, Matthew and Adam, have unresolved issues with one
another, Adam and his wife, Sheena are in the throes of splitting up and
Matthew’s girlfriend, Carrie feels inadequate and, as a consequence, is
embarrassingly loud. Add to this the fact
that her domineering husband, Francis, has a few hours respite from hospital
and her nerves are as highly strung as a Stradivarius.
How
does she cope? Well, displayed on a
games board above the stage is “Edith must clean to keep calm”. And she’s not the only one. The other members of the family have similar
strategies relayed for all to see. Matthew
“must sit to tell a lie”, Carrie “must stand to tell a joke” and so on and so
forth. As a result we’re totally aware
of what is to come and thus the humour is intensified, especially when later on
their rituals become even more involved.
We soon realise the problems each character faces and the descent into
chaos for each is inevitable, especially when we are forewarned with the
playing of a board game entitled Bedlam.
Marianne Elliott’s direction is spot on, whilst Chloe Lamford’s open plan kitchen,
complete with Aga, is a joy. The
performances, too, are exemplary. The
excellent Stephen Mangan as Adam,
the failed would-be cricketer, is brilliant at hiding his self loathing behind
a quick, sardonic wit. His wife, Sheena,
played by Claudie Blakley, excellently
portrays her disappointment with life in general and succour in the odd drink
or four in particular. Miles Jupp’s Matthew turns insincerity
into an art form, whilst Deborah
Findlay’s Edna, is a mother we all recognise. My daughter certainly did when Adam was
handed a coaster for his mug so that a mark wasn’t left on the table; I received a hefty dig in the ribs as
acknowledgement!
Rules for Living will have its detractors, but I’m
not one of them.